Image credits: Rogério Vaquero / @pai_cria

Fatherhood: meet 5 men who are deconstructing the traditional father figure on social media profiles

They show their day-to-day life with their children on social media and have a very different stance than that of the classic provider father, “taught” in patriarchal society and approved by social conventions. We have separated 5 interesting profiles for you to follow on social media!

Influencer fathers are concerned with daily tasks and care for their children – changing diapers, bathing, making food, helping with schoolwork, among others – which are traditionally linked to mothers. They not only get their hands dirty, but also share their experiences on the internet as a way of educating other parents to change their stance on parenthood. 

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Unfortunately, daily care for children is still not a reality for the majority of Brazilian men who are fathers. One research carried out by the Promundo Institute, in 2019, showed that while the majority of parents reported playing with their children frequently (83%), a smaller portion cited cooking (46%) or bathing them (55%). So, the father who rolls up his sleeves and dives into active fatherhood is still the exception. 

Discover 5 profiles of men who are fully involved in fatherhood and want to share the transformative experience with other fathers: 

1) Fatherly Man/ Tiago Koch

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Tiago Koch is the father of Lara and Nalu, and a naturologist, founder of Paternal Man . Since he became a father he has shared his personal dive into topics such as masculinity and fatherhood. His focus is the periods of pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum (postpartum period). 

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2) Father Creates – Rogério Vaquero

Rogério Vaquero, journalist and writer, shares moments of “parenting” and discusses how to raise children.

In profile father_cria, on Instagram, he presents a weekly interview with real parents and their experiences in educating and caring for their offspring, such as a chat with Pedro Paes, Physical Education professor at the Federal University of Pernambuco. The educator gained national fame after a student filmed him teaching with ease while cradling a baby in his lap.

 

3) Leandro Ziotto – 4Daddy

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Leandro Ziotto is the creator of 4 Daddies, a platform for producing content and knowledge about fatherhood, masculinity and the care economy.

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In addition to articles and reports, the platform offers courses aimed at parents and recommendations for companies to encourage and embrace fatherhood within the corporate world (such as investing in paternity leave).

 4) Thiago Queiroz – Dad, Comma

Father of Dante, Gael and Maya. At the Daddy, Comma, Thiago produces texts, videos and podcasts about attachment parenting, positive discipline and conscious parenting.

“Fatherhood is built a little bit every day. It's delivery, availability and affection. It is a relationship that, like any other relationship in our lives, needs care and affection.”

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5) Josimar Silveira – Quilombo Family

Josimar shares, alongside his partner Adriana, the experiences of anti-racist education for his children, in familiaquilombo, on Instagram. They talk about affection and creation based on the experience of a black family.

The couple also has a  YouTube channel  about the family's daily life. 

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